Thursday, October 7, 2010

Why we Have Friends

Many people's greatest fear in the world is being alone.  People fear this because they are not their self without others.  They need other individuals to share their experiences with and to make them know what right and wrong is.  People know they need this, this is why they try to create strong bonds with their peers in order to insure that they can have a relationship with  someone else that gives them these benefits.  If people don't share their experiences and accomplishments with they will loose self confidence and feel unimportant, because after all, what is a great accomplishment if no one knows about it.  This is also why some people hate others.  If someone lives in a place where it is normal to hate they will try to fit in, in order to have a stable relationship with their peers.  Of course fitting in means having to hate others to.  Also people learn what is right and what is wrong from others.  If someone lives by them self they cant learn how to live from others, and will loose a sense of right and wrong after not to long.  But if to or more people live together, then they can compare their behavior to another person, and the two can learn from each other.  Without others humans can't survive in the way we do now.  Civilization started because we were able top communicate with each other, and that is why it has been hardwired into our DNA to be friends with other people, of course it has to do with survival, but where would the human race be today if it was made of one person.

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